Although the theory was initially aimed at both genders, in current times it is widely used as an excuse to avoid dealing with actions or behaviors. But just because a woman is with an older man, is happy single, seeks attention, is independent or has a sailor’s mouth, does not mean she is behaving so because she has papa pains. Men, however, do not deal with the same social stigma. In the macho world, MILFs are an appreciated commodity and becoming Hugh Hefner is the dream; by that I mean being called a sugar daddy and having a fledging female as an arm accessory. He may have thought he was a feminist and liberated women during the sexual revolution era, but that does not define empowerment accurately. The playboy mansion would have to shut down if I ever rocked up in that bunny suit. Even spanx have limits.